A
Close Shave
Personal Stories From The First
Edition
A CLOSE SHAVE
THE year 1890 witnessed
my advent as the youngest of five sons to a fine Christian mother
and a hard working blacksmith father. At the age of eight my
father used to send me after his pail of beer and it was by
lapping the foam off the beer that I first d iscovered that
the taste was much to my liking. By the time I was fourteen,
at which time I quit school, I had found that wine and hard
cider were also pleasing to my palate. The next six years I
spent learning the art of barbering and by the end of this period
I had become both a proficient barber and an earnest drinker.
During the next 10 or 12 years I was able
to acquire several lucrative shops, some with poolrooms and
restaurants attached. It seemed quite impossible however for
me to stand prosperity so I would drink myself out of one situation,
get myself together a b it, develop another, and then repeat
the performance.
The time came when I could no longer refinance
myself so I began to float about the country, getting a job
here and there as I could, but invariably I got fired in a short
time because of my unreliability.
My marriage, which occurred in 1910 about
the time I started my successful ownership of shops, resulted
in our having a family of ten children who were usually desperately
in need because I used my slender income for booze instead of
providing for them.
I finally secured a job in a shop in a
town of about 4,500 people, where I now live. My reputation
for drinking soon became more or less generally known. About
this time a deacon and the pastor of one of the local churches
used to come in the shop for the ir work and were constantly
inviting me to church and Bible classes, which invitations irritated
me very much. I earnestly wished they would mind their own business.
I finally did accept one or two invitations
to social functions at the home of one of these men, and was
received so cordially that the barrier between us was partially
lowered.
I did not stop drinking however, though
my feeling toward these men was kindly. They at last persuaded
me to go to a nearby town to have a talk with a doctor who had
had a great deal of experience with this type of trouble. I
listened to the man for two h ours, and although my mind was
quite foggy, I retained a good deal of what he said. I feel
that the combined effort of these three Christian gentlemen
made it possible for me to have a vital spiritual experience.
This occurred in March, 1937. I have had n o trouble since.
For about six years previous to this time
I was never at any time completely free from the influence of
liquor.
Since that time I have regained the love
of my family and the respect of the community, and can truthfully
say that the past few years have been the happiest of my life.
I have busied myself a great deal during
these few years in helping others who were afflicted as I was,
and the combined efforts of the deacon, the pastor, and myself,
have resulted in nine other men finding a way out of difficulties
which were identical with mine. I feel this activity has played
an important part in my mastery of this most devastating habit.
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